Elizabeth is officially not a high schooler anymore. Her graduation party was Sunday and oh, what a crowd and good time!
I can't even believe I didn't get a photo of her and her parents and sister at the party but to be honest we were all flitting around like busy bees touching down for only a minute or two between the guests. PH and I and our son and his family were all helping: reloading food, emptying trash, refilling drink dispensers, talking and laughing with the guests, I don't think any of us finished a sentence, certainly not two.
So many of the cousins said it was so nice to be together at a time that didn't involve a casket. I know distances are relative but we had people driving from 2-5 hours away and truly, around here, that's a miracle. But we are at the age when we have one eye on the hour glass and are taking advantage of seeing each other in happy times if we can.
These are photos our daughter took because, sorry to say, I took hardly none.
Centerpieces were all about Elizabeth. She is a lover of old. Books, bones, games. The boxes held sand, mini shovels and scattered in the sand, archaeological finds. She is going into archaeology, has said that since she was three years old and stuck to it, so mini digs on the tables was just her. Also there were assorted growing up photos on the tables.
You all probably do this, too, but here because of weather possibilities tents are mandatory at grad parties. You can plan till you turn blue but you can't control the weather. The party we were at on Saturday had a sunny day but it was COLD and windy. Sunday's event was absolutely perfect weather. But it could just as easily have not. You just never know.
One thing I have to say about this family is that their dad has instilled in them the value of play. They play. And the girls and their friends are in the theater at school and play and pretend is an essential component of theater. There was a table of props, with plenty of moustaches, hats, swords, goofy glasses, and play they did.
In the quiet after everyone left, Elizabeth's two most long and faithful friends since little girlhood still played. Quiet laughter, bubbles, smiles. They will all be in different places come fall. And I will miss these girls.
Did I say we laughed? What is it called when you laugh so hard your eyes are closed? Friends Sue and Marge and I have been friends for 60 years....maybe more if I do the math.
Grandson Mike (in navy blue) was just itching to play euchre with Grandpa. He heard about Ceci playing with the old guys the day before and he was just itching. When things started to quiet down and a table became available, PH, cousin Barney and four of the littles had a game. I loved seeing this, it means there will always be a game going as the kids take up the torch. They are learning from the best.
Elizabeth gets her quilt tomorrow so there will finally be pictures.